Author and speaker Dawn Eden has penned a book that travels
bravely into the dark and daunting forest of sexual abuse as it simultaneously calls
out hope for survivors. My Peace I Give You, Healing Sexual Wounds with the Help of the Saints (Ave Maria Press, 2012) is an illumined path
for survivors of sexual abuse, packed with reassurance that no one is lost, alone,
or doomed in their suffering.
Eden, herself, is not alone in this trek; she’s brought
along an entire search and rescue team in the Body of Christ. While discreetly telling
her own painful memories, Eden unpacks the solace of divine graces found in her
conversion to Catholicism, and within a sacramental life. What’s more, Eden carries
a sure compass pointing toward hope as she looks to the Passion of Christ, as
well as biographies of saints -- women
and men -- who have suffered in mind and body.
In My Peace I Give You,
Eden declares that peace is possible in Christ by reflecting on the pains of
the past in order to purify them.
Christ’s sufferings, like all his
acts, are of infinite value; they have meaning and purpose. The Christian
believer’s sufferings share in this purpose, for she is, through her baptism,
united to Christ…
The beautiful truth is that even
past sufferings, in the light of Christ, take on profound meaning, because they
are part of the believer who is united to Christ in the present moment…. memory
does not have to be the enemy. On the contrary, our healing becomes possible
when we admit our memories are an integral part of who we are. Jesus said, “Those who are well have no
need of a physician, but those who are sick,” (Mt 9:12). If the Divine
Physician is to operate on me, I must have an opening through which he can
reach my heart. I must admit that I am wounded, and that my wounds remain. Such
a painful admission is yet possible with the aid of God’s grace. (Eden, My
Peace I Give You, Ave Maria Press, 2012, p. 43.)
Peace not only comforts, it opens an opportunity to grow. Within
the book, Eden quotes Blessed John XXIII reminding us that each saint is “holy
in a different way.” Just as
sexual wounds are very particular to each person who has been victimized, so,
too, the path toward holiness is specific for each person. Eden profiles Saints
Josephine Bakita, Gemma Galgani, Thérèse of Lisieux, Maria Goretti,
Bernard of Clairvaux, Thomas Aquinas, Margaret of Costello, Maximilian Kolbe,
and more. While not all of these have suffered abuse of a sexual nature, Eden
finds noteworthy virtues and inspiration relevant for the topic at hand.
My Peace I Give You
helps readers find spiritual friends for the often arduous and circuitous
journey toward hope and healing. While support and professional
counseling are good, making friends with certain saints – human persons who
have undergone suffering on earth yet are now perfected in heaven -- offers
supernatural direction and hope. Indeed, the saints are boon companions, safe
confidantes, and shining examples that good can
come from evil, that the light of faith, eventually, overcomes any and all
darkness.
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I was asked to review this book by the Book Club at Patheos where I write a column. As the topic is one we've dealt with on Among Women several times, I thought I'd offer this post for your interest. I'll work on getting Dawn Eden as a future guest on the podcast, but in the meanwhile, you may find this book beneficial, as well as previous episodes of Among Women that deal with the topic of sexual abuse. Those episodes are 47, 75, 79, and 103.
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